I don’t know about you, but I am not an antagonistic competitor. I don’t perform well trying to beat the opponent in front of me. I find myself focusing too much on I don’t know about you, but I am not an antagonistic competitor. I don’t perform well trying to beat the opponent in front of me. I find myself focusing too much on trying to out-do the person, trying to out-talk the person, or intimidate them. My focus is no longer on the task at hand, and I get lost in some personal vendetta that does not help me in accomplishing what I set out to do.